If you want a life of chaos and screaming babies come join
me at the Mampong Babies Home. I’m not exactly sure how many children are there
but it seems like there are around 3 trillion. It’s a lot of work. Not hard
work, but dirty work that comes in large quantities. Today will be my third day
there.
I didn’t go yesterday
because I was sick. But not to worry, everyone gets sick. And it went as soon
as it came. I’m good now. For the most part. Pia my lovely Norwegian roommate
took wonderful care of me including cutting up her towel to make a washcloth to
put on my head and cooling me down with, buying me some coke, and forcing me to
drink it. Mavis helped a lot too. She went out and bought me some medicine,
kept me company, was constantly worried, and said she would pray for me. And I
guess it all worked wonders because I was up working again today.
It’s hard because the “mothers” there speak Twi, and so
do the kids. Some know English but Twi is there native language so it makes disciplining,
and complementing an issue. All the kids need so much attention and it’s hard
to give it to all of them because there are so many there. The kids all come
from families where their mother has died, usually in giving birth to them. So
the fathers have put them in this home because they either can’t afford to take
care of the babies on their own, think the baby is cursed due to the mother
dying in childbirth, or doesn’t have the resources to keep take care of the
baby while they’re working. They’re supposed to come back for babies when they
turn a certain age. Many don’t. Then it’s up to Social Services on what to do
with the kids, which becomes completely up in the air at that point. Adoption
isn’t really implemented here. People can hardly afford to take care of their
own kids so why would they want to take on anyone else’s. Some of the kids are
getting to that too-old age though.
The workers at the orphanage “sister’s or mother’s” as we
call them, don’t really treat the kids the best. They’re probably tired of
working there and the work is draining, don’t get me wrong. But they’re pretty
rough and tumble with them, lots of yelling too. It’s strange. Maybe it isn’t
as bad as it seems to be. Most of the time I can’t understand what they’re
saying so who knows maybe it’s all peaches and cream.
A day’s work goes as follows:
- Arrive at the babies home at 8 o'clock
- Attend to the babies who have all been put in one large crib who are usually crying, playing with the blinds, drooling, climbing on top of each other, doing normal baby things
- Take them out of the crib, lay them on the mat on the floor, change they’re diapers, put on nappies (plastic outer shell with a cotton little blanket type thing for absorption
- Take them all into a separate room, feed them
- Bring them somewhere else, bathe them, powder them, dress them, put them in cribs
Leave
It’s around 10:30 and we have until 3 for a
break, then we go back to the home and:
- Play with kids
- Feed the older kids. (with your hands… and the food looks like vomit and is hot and you have to roll it up into little balls and feed it to the kids who are swarming you and running around all at once.
- Then we change the babies again and get them ready for bed, mosquito nets down and lights out.
Doesn’t sound like much, but boy are we exhausted by 7 o’clock
when we’re let out usually covered in puke and with aching backs.
Please bring me a baby!!!!!!!
ReplyDeleteMake your own aly.
DeleteNOT YET! hahahahaa. Baby Oka-Coos is going to be BEAUTIFUL!
DeleteIt sounds brutal Camie. You most be really hot around all the kids and stuff all day. I know you're doing a great job. Please make sure to take care of yourself and don't run yourself down till your sick. I'm glad they let you get better. Did you get sick from the food? I'm sure glad you have a nice roommate and you can look out for each other. Please be careful! Love you! Proud of you!
ReplyDeleteSo are the kids in cribs to stay all day? Or do they play out of them? my only concern.
ReplyDeleteBe careful! you're awesome!